Critical conversations with students
"Can you believe Johnny cheated on his math homework for the second day in a row? You'd think he would stop copying answers from his friends after I gave him a zero! He's not learning anything and will surely fail the test."Have you been in on one of those conversations? Perhaps you've even been the one issuing the zeros.
Been there. Done that. Still working on it.
It hit me one day. It wasn't rocket science though. I need to talk to these students and ask them to change their behavior. A few students actually admitted that they were lost. My words to describe their situation - these students were too lost to even consider asking for help. At the time, my classroom was run as if I was administering a test each and every day: points were awarded based on correct answers on homework. Students want points. Copying was worth the risk to them. Things had to change. I began what I now call "critical conversations" with these students. When I sense a student is extremely lost, I will write a note on his/her paper asking if there is a way I can help and/or if he/she is willing to come in outside of class for remedial work. If this does not solicit a response from the student, I will usually talk to him/her one-on-one during or right after class. Finally, if the situation warrants, I will contact the student's parents to make them aware of the situation. Most recently, I have seen a student every day after school for almost one week as a result of the parent communication. Don't get me wrong, this is not a magic bullet solution to helping struggling students. Some students never respond. Some parents aren't as willing to help. Creating this culture of caring is the piece of the puzzle I believe will yield the biggest results in the long haul.
I try to have these "critical conversations" with my entire class from time to time. Speaking in transparent and direct terms to students is the biggest component of a critical conversation. Sometimes they come in the form of a warm-up problem at the beginning of class:
"The person who does the work is the only one doing any learning!" (Harry Wong)
